Aisha’s life reads like a series of daring exits: leaving a stable path, rebuilding in new countries, and walking away from “successful” seasons the moment they stop being true. From making Portugal her home after a solo spiritual journey to building a real estate business through pure trust and follow-through, she shows how quickly life can expand when you stop waiting for permission. But she also tells the part most people hide: the boredom, the pressure to control everything, and the trauma patterns that can quietly run the show no matter how good things look from the outside.
We get honest about abandonment wounds, survival mode, and what it takes to shift into thriving. We talk boundaries that actually protect you, why ghosting is often fear in disguise, and how learning to communicate directly can become a form of self-respect. I also break down the mindset mechanics behind it, how thoughts trigger feelings, how feelings trigger reactions, and how those reactions become habits that shape your purpose, your relationships, and your ability to manifest what you want.
The conversation turns deeply personal as Aisha shares a painful turning point that forced her to listen for what she calls God’s guidance, then choose surrender over control one day at a time.
We close with practical reminders: gratitude plus faith is powerful, your “best” changes by the day, and authenticity beats perfection every time.
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Transcript:
If you’ve ever struggled with fear, doubt, or worry and wondering what your true purpose was all about, better than this podcast is for you. In this show, your host, Sylvia Warsham, will interview elite experts and ordinary people that have created extraordinary lives. So here’s your host, Sylvia Warsham.
I’ve still got a lot of fire left.
And she is joining us to talk about motivation. And just before the interview, we were talking about pretty deep subjects that I realized is like, hey, let’s just start recording more because we don’t want to miss the bird juicy stuff. So without further ado, Aisha, thank you so much for joining us on the release out review purpose. Where are you joining us from?
I right now located Lisbon, Portugal. I’m uh, you know, it’s my home base right now, so I decided I’m going to live like the rest of my life and die here.
I know that. I’ve heard Portugal is like the most beautiful place in the world, just very relaxing, very like the energy there is calming. Um we were talking about energy prior to the interview, and I thought, wow, these are really good topics. I’m sure you picked Portugal for a reason. Why did you pick Portugal?
I used to live in Portugal many years ago. Um, like it just also the God sent it to me because I did the Camina de Santiago, my the solo, you know, spiritual journey of Camina de Santiago, and I was looking for my place where my heart is. My question was like, what is true love? And uh what happened is I went on that journey alone, like solo, and after the journey, I discovered Portugal. I just went backpacking, somebody told me about Portugal. I didn’t know anything about this country, and when I arrived, I fell in love and I said, like, here I’m going to live. This is my home. That’s what I feel was my heart that moment of my life. And of course, like as anything, you know, I uh moved that time. I was living in Norway, so I moved from Norway to Portugal, and Portugal 10 years ago was so cheap compared today. Of course, it’s way more expensive because not so many people discover that time Portugal. So um, so I my life was amazing. I was like, oh, my savings is enough for the next two, three years to live in here okay life, you know. I’m for sure for figuring out what I’m going to do. I’m young, you know, I’m like, I will I will know, you know, that was my I would say with that was my first retirement, retire time when I decided uh to move somewhere way more cheaper than I I was before. And um, and I just started to explore and I started to work on real estate, you know, and after slowly, like I want to do like lecturer real estate, not just like normal, and everyone was like, you don’t have any experience, why are you doing lectures? Like, it’s all the same, it’s all relationships, it doesn’t matter, you know. It’s like because I knew that in even so I will uh work on real estate, I have enough to cover my my life for next two, three years. I knew that I will close the deals, I will make something out of it. It’s uh it’s not about like for me, I just want to kind of explore that level of life, probably, and that’s why I’ve been already spoiled living in Norway, the most richest country in the world, working as an engineer, travel around the world, I get bored, you know, already, and working as an engineer, like many things, you know, that moment. So I want to have like new challenges. I have like this entrepreneurial mindset that I would I like challenges, I challenge myself. And here I am in Portugal. First, of course, everyone told me, like, you get to work as an engineer, this is what you did, and uh that of course I started to look at work as an engineer. The salary compared to normal was like very, very little, and I’m like, no way, I’m not going to work here as an engineer. Anyway, so I started to work on the real estate, and slowly by um exploring that side of me, uh, I discovered that uh I what I have, you know, people were trusting me very because I’m in my words, I will always show up, I will always do what I say. And um so slowly people started to give me the keys to the apartments, to their big places, big properties, like mentions, and so I I said, what I’m going to do with that. Uh what I’m you know, how I’m going to actually um what I get a creator of it. So I started to think about tourism. So I’m like, I’m gonna rent this apartment to the tourists, so I started to make like a contract and you know, helping them to make a little bit of money because um Portuguese people general, from my experience, they have an issue with trust, and it takes time to kind of like build that trust. And um when I arrived, maybe because I arrived from Norway and I was a little bit like Asian, so for me it was like easy to gain that trust. Uh, and I was so surprised. I was like, at the end of the six months, I think I’ve been I’ve been about six months here. I already have a property management company, I’m already running like a part like um running this company, I’m already doing the construction, you know, like so many things happen in such a short time, and nine months later I’m already making money, you know, like and I’m like so much money that all my friends is just like business owners, entrepreneurs from very rich families, and we’re all hanging out for dinners, traveling, and doing a lot of cool stuff that for my twenties was like wow, I’m on top of the mind, like on the top of the world, and um so I got bored. I have this like issues with boredom and abandonment issues, and uh that I didn’t know in that moment. I started to discover that I have a borderline um syndrome, whatever it’s called, like uh in my 20, I was 25, I think 24, 25. I started to work on it a little bit, and I said, okay, if I have that, I don’t need medication or me, I don’t need any, I can work with my mind to kind of like deal with that, just change a lot of a direction. I change a lot of what I started to get bored, I get to change a little bit, you know, like just a little bit. I don’t need to change. And what I discovered so far, I’m very creative, you know, I’m super creative. It’s easy for me to adapt, it’s easy for me to shape the reality I I live. It was so many like powers that I have learned as a woman, it scares me. It scares me so much in my life. Like I didn’t surrender that moment, as you were telling me, it’s about surrender, and I was controlling it because I want to I have this fixed picture of my life. When here it’s getting bigger and bigger than I even can imagine. And uh so I didn’t let myself to be flexible in that moment of my life or be like more like a flow, like a surrender. I had an issue with stress because I have an issue with abandonment, and that I want to let journey about my abandon. That’s why I moved from Portugal to America, to Miami, first and decided to be an artist, and decided to be an art boss. You know, like all the things. I was like, I don’t want to discover this light, I want to discover different light of me as an artist. So I become this like girl with you know, space girl, they call me like space girls, and um because I have this idea about space and all the time talk about space, and you see me in my background, I put like space. So I’m just feeling like as naturally I access you know that reality from like space. I started to think about what it is to be accomplished artist, what it is to accomplish something in my lifetime, or you know, what it is. And I started to discover more about space and think about space, and like, you know, all my art is about space, like it’s uh triangles and that, and I believe like the universe is all connected, all the galaxies collect uh connected to each other, and now planet Earth is a part of uh um Milky Way galaxy, so it’s like different things that I decided to look into, and I discover it’s like limitless of potential what we can create in this lifetime by just giving it time and decide. And I like to be an artist. That’s what I discovered. Yes, I like to be a businesswoman, I’m being successful as a businesswoman, and now I’m learning to be successful artists, and I think I’m successful artists too. But it’s just like how I can maintain that success right now. It’s like working on as a woman, you know, don’t anymore having these fixed pictures or ideas. I’m just going with the flow, I just surrender and trust. If I don’t like something, I communicate it. Before I was holding it back because I was scary to talk, because I was feeling like they were because you know, you because of my background, because of like my abandonation, because of like so many other things, the traumas that I experienced as a child. So I that I started to create that safe space for myself, and I started to speak up like all my emotions, all my things, and I trust that I’m creating that safe space within myself. I’m safe and I’m loved, and everyone wants to be here for me. And I started to kind of communicate better and better with the world. Communicating when I need time alone, I get to communicate it. When I be want to be with someone, I get to communicate it. When I want to create something, I get to communicate it. So I become better and better of communicating clearly what I want to create in my life. And more I’m clear, I’m you know, I’m very I was so funny. I think like it’s just so funny. The way I’m clearing even the space with my friends, I’m very direct. It’s like I don’t want to be your friend anymore. Like it my friends were like, people just avoid you and then don’t speak up even about that, and you just like coming, like, I don’t want to be friendly, like your friend anymore. We six months or four months of being friends, and here I am saying like and the person like, why? I said you’re doing this and this, I don’t want that in my life. So I’m just you know, very direct having this conversation, I just and I’m just walking away because I’m feeling so safe. If the person wants to change and still be your friend, they get to, you know, at least I get to speak up my truth about feeling safe to speak up what I feel and why I don’t want them anymore in my life. Because if they I just avoid them, I’m just ghosting them, it’s not right.
I get like um and you’re avoiding pain because exactly when I can interrupt for just a second because you made a couple of very key points that I wanted to highlight. One is when we avoid pain, we are moving away from pleasure. So you’re either moving towards pleasure or you’re avoiding pain. It’s one or the other, and that’s how you know if you’re stuck in fear versus when you’re living in abundance and joy and love, which is our center, right? That’s what we always want to remember. We’ve got to come back to center when we I’m a dancer, so I’m that creative side of me. I think what is my center? My center is my faith. I gotta come back to neutral, number one. The other thing you mentioned that was also a very key point to highlight was that you spoke to yourself instead of listening to yourself. Now, let me clear that up for the listeners of the podcast. The reason why I’m saying that is when we listen to the many thoughts that are coming into our mind, we have a tendency to allow those thoughts to promote feelings within us. And then the feelings create these reactions. We have certain reactions and patterns that we’ve developed over time that have become habits in our life. And those habits are not necessarily what’s leading us to abundance in our life or love unconditional or manifesting what we want in life. It’s actually having the opposite effect. So there are certain patterns of behavior. You talked about having uh wanting to fix your circumstances. That’s a controlling pattern of behavior. I call it the security seeker in my book, In Faith I Drive. And it usually happens when there is trauma early on in your childhood, feeling feel something in that trauma, and the and the feeling gets attached, or rather, the pattern gets attached to a feeling. And anytime that feeling shows up in your life, that pattern kicks into gear. It’s like the automatic response of your subconscious programming. Your subconscious mind is in full control. So I loved that you said I started to speak into what I wanted versus listening to those doubts.
So there’s a lot of information out there. Tons of people that are coming into our environment.
I always say, take an inventory once in a while. Who surrounds you? The top five people in your life, and take a look at whether they are light takers or light givers. Are they providing you light to help you move through like a circumstance or crossroads, or are they telling you you can’t do anything? And sometimes we can’t get rid of these people because they’re our family members. All we can do is we can do the growth on our own journey and focus on what we need to do to level up and from a space of love, realize that not everybody’s there, they have a different journey that God has them on, and you you will not understand their journey initially. You want to fix that journey for them. That’s not your role, that’s his role. He takes care of that. Your role is what God, what do I need to manifest? How do I need to step into my purpose? And that’s your way, you know, and we’re there to provide light to others and we’ll model that for them. Because sometimes what happens is that those people like what’s happening in your world, they like your energy, they like that you’re always providing light to them, and they want more of that, and they’ll ask you, what are you doing to manifest this in your life? What are you doing? Uh, I want to be more like you, I don’t want to take things personally anymore, I don’t want to control my circumstances anymore. I want to surrender daily to what I cannot control. How do you do that? And then you can go in there and as a mentor, as a guide, as a friend, you can step in there now, right? But sometimes when we let go of certain relationships, um, that’s the initial stages of the growth journey because it’s you’re learning, you’re learning, so you’re detaching from certain energies, right, in your world, but you also feel a gut feeling inside of you that’s telling you to move on. That’s the one that I would pay more attention to. Some people call it intuition, some people got it gut feelings. I call them God instincts because the Holy Spirit is always guiding us. We just there’s so much noise out there, we hardly hear him when he speaks to us. And so when he starts to guide us and say, Okay, it’s time for you to move on from this relationship, it’s time to move on, let go, surrender, right? And just allow him to take you where he needs to take you. And by the time you turn around, you’ll understand why those people left your life, and and you were able to step fully into who you were meant to be. So that’s I thought you mentioned a lot of key points that I just wanted to touch base on. It sounds like you are in your purpose correct, right? Right now, like you’re an artist, you are um living in Portugal, you are not in real estate anymore, are you? You’re an artist fully, full-time.
Yeah. And so I’m here, yeah. I already got my residency, I’ve got already like all this, you know, set up and everything. The only thing is, yes, that would happen many years ago, the controlling, you know, the control, the traumas. So I got to work through all these traumas that I had. You mentioned very, very, very, very well because what I learned is like because I’ve been so at the control, and I feeling like I had this fixed ideas of myself, so I was not flexible enough to change them. And I was not like flexible, I was scary, you know, like everything else scares me. And I’m feeling like why as an artist, and when I moved to Miami, when I decided to in uh I decided to be in Arbazo 2020, I moved and like and you know the COVID hit and many things happened. So like I’ve been when I look back this last five years, what happened? I’ve been just growing and growing and growing. Yes, I was stuck. I learned like as an artist, you can be stuck also like uh you cannot create, and it’s like it’s painful as well, like uh because you’re so much in your world, you really like I’ve been in my world, but now I’m in my world that I believe that God takes care of me, God is always with me, God is always here for me, and He’s really putting me through this journey that I get to go. And you know the funny things, I’ve been in jail in Arizona, you know, they put me uh by like whatever my mistake, but it spent like 10 days, and it was like a five days, it was in quarantine time, 2022 or 2023. But like was like I was crying for like being a first once you know, in one year and after they took me to another one where I was uh alone because I had several charges, like one of them because I was uh I was um I was saying fighting with policemen and was like a two big man beat me up. They ended up an emergency room, you know, and like and after they put me in the jail, and it was like a whole thing. So I didn’t understand why they did it. Because I had like still I have scar here, I have a scar there, so I still get to kind of like you know, um understand that the the funny things what happened was me in that moment, these 10 days, God started to talk to me and they said to me, Aisha, 10 years, we give you 10 years, this is what you so asked, this extra 10 years, whatever you want to do, we just let you to do. Now it’s no more time. It’s no more time for you to to just get lost more and more in trying to kill yourself, you know, because you have this like you know, like this distraction or like a programs that I’ve been suicidal, you know, when I was a child because of my background, because abandonment issue, because like I’m no like kids telling you, nobody loves you, all these dramas that you get to go through and all these programs you get to go through and actually like learn how to survive, how not like being suicidal and being like saved. Finally, I understood I have some purpose. But I didn’t understand which one because when you’re having this very, very dark and heavy and brutal childhood that you get to go through, and like teens here, teenagers’ years, like all that time until you’ve been adult, and finally you’re free to do whatever you want, many of us getting lost. And I’ve been guided by God, being guided. I’m very grateful for all these people who didn’t give up on me. When even I was giving up on myself many times, you know, because I was feeling like my mother abandoned me, this is what happened, this would happen, and like you know, kind of like have these issues within me that I get to, you know, take responsibility and taking power with it. Yeah, so what? I’m still here, I’m still shining my star, I’m still like an amazing human being. I created myself, I built myself up by observing, by learning, by you know, surviving, by understanding, by asking questions, by learning different languages, by being curious, by you know, doing many other things. Of course, I had this up and downs very strong. My happy moments and up to like very sad moments had very strong, you know, and I started to regulate them a little bit, lit by a little bit by little bit, little by little, and I felt like it’s a lot of work, you know, emotional stability, emotional maturity, and disdaining other people and have compassion towards their life, and by having compassion towards myself, having comp you know, like it’s so much work I have done through my lifetime, and I’m still have so much work to do. I’m just feeling like I I face it. One day I said to myself, it’s not a way because I don’t continue to face, continue to avoid that. You remember like avoiding if I will continue to avoid these friends that I will not talk to them because I’m just decided to avoid and continue to walk away, it’s not right. I cannot do that anymore. It’s not right. And I started to communicate it clearly, and what I learned. When people telling me when I’m in someone’s house, like let’s say it’s very simple, like, and you telling me, Aisha, I don’t want to have uh shoes in the house. It’s just one rule. Every time I’m going to be in your house, I will take shoes off. What I learned when I started to create the rules in my like my boundaries and rules, and I communicated with other people, they don’t listen. They don’t listen to what I’m communicating with them. So I get to kind of go deeper within myself and understand do I want to have these people in my life? What I get to change inside of me, and I I was doing this the change, and these people continue to be the way they are. So I get to understand that’s not about me, it’s about them. They get to work on themselves. I’m not here to teach them how they get to do things, they get to understand if they don’t continue to listen what you know other people tell them, they don’t respect other people’s boundaries, they cannot grow. That’s why when somebody communicating with me that this is what they like, this is what I don’t like, I respect that. I’m asking sometimes if I like something and they don’t like, I’m asking questions to figuring out why. And the same time, like I’m just respecting people the way they are, and slowly, you know, when I’m navigating myself and understanding how I can play with them, how I can interact better, how I what I want to create with them. In reality, when I was an artist in Miami, I was just doing a lot of these pop-ups in 2021. I started to do a lot of pop-ups uh on different mansions and different you know, restaurants, lounges, everywhere. I just inviting all my artist friends, whoever can come, we just come bring the all the art, just talking, sharing, experiencing, you know, like and for me, I just learned one thing that time as well. If I’m going to be after 11 p.m. or 12 p.m., the energy is switching, it’s so rapidly, it’s completely different energy, it’s very dark, it’s heavy, and I didn’t like it. And I said, I don’t want to be here. Why? I organized, I set up everything. I told everyone, okay, you can stay as long as you want. I talked to the owner, I said, like, whenever it’s closed, you just everyone is leaving, I’m going home. Thank you very much. You know, by 10:30, 10 p.m., I go home. You know, that was my decision because I wake up at 5 a.m. I had my routine during the day, and I love it. You know, I love my routine. I didn’t do any drugs, you know, like I didn’t uh drink, I didn’t go parties, I didn’t do any kind of clubbing, nothing. And people was asking me, like, why are you like this? And I said, like, everyone choosing how they want to live the life. That’s my choice. Yes, I’m still an artist, I’m still doing the things I want to do, organizing and you know, uh networking and figuring out because I want to be an art buzzer, that’s my goal. And I knew that if I’m living in Miami and continue to network, continue to work, whatever I get to do, I will be there. I will figure out the art business, how the art business works. So for me, it’s always like learning, walking the walk, asking questions, you know, like also grow because I understood not so many people emotionally mature of growth, they don’t want to grow, they go all the time on this loops, and I started to observe people by the weeks. If I’m with someone, like let’s say it was a guy, I started to uh like uh romantically involved with someone, I said like it’s the same part, it’s the same conversation, the same things. So I started to kind of zoom in and zoom out, zoom in and zoom out, and I feel like I don’t want to have these conversations. I don’t want to have, and after the while I said, I don’t want to have any relationships because it’s all the same. They want to control you, they want to kind of like make you feel small, they want me making you like that you’re guilty about something that you’re not even like think about, and like it’s just all this like misery, negative conversation that they put trying to push you down instead of to push you up. And I said, Why the guys doing that? What I did to them. I always want to try people put up, and every time if I’m in someone’s life for six months and over it, the life getting better, more better, more lighter, more like like lifting up to the next level. And I’m like, my life, I’m lifting myself up by myself. I don’t need anyone to lift myself to the next level because I’m just curious myself to for the growth, and I organize that and I surrender and I like you know, I started to practice it more and more the last three years, four years. It’s not an easy process to surrender. That was not easy to look give up the control. That was not the the not easiest part of me in 2021 to give up on control. Because when I’m in that pattern for so long, because you get to, you know, you get to always protect yourself, you get to always be in this survivor survivor, survivor mode since child, you know, because everyone gets in beat you up, punish you. Um it’s completely like wild, but that was everyday, you know, everyday life when you get to kind of adapt yourself to kind of figuring out how to, but my personality was so stubborn, you know, sort of billish. So I get to kind of like still be me. I mean it’s me was getting out every time, so I’ve been punished more and being beat up more, like you know, I’ve been all the time taking all that on me, so it’s like it was not easy, but I accept that now by sharing my voice, sharing what I’m went through and and I’m going through with the world, I’m not scary because I’m feeling like that’s my truth. I overcome what I get to overcome, and I will overcome so much more for my growth, for be a better human being, whatever better it is, I don’t know anymore. I just know we do best every day of our life, whatever best it is, and I’m just feeling like today, my best maybe just wake up from the bed, you know, like, and that’s what already best that I can do today. Sometimes, like, I’m feeling we’re going through so much not easy things, like dog died, or you’re missing your baby, or like, oh, maybe your dad died, mom died, or something happened, you know, very heavy. You thinking you still get to go and do things that you get to do every day. Your body is going through something, and that’s why it’s heavy. Sometimes you don’t understand, but because you’re in this routine and this pattern that you get to go and do the work, you know, take care of this, take care of it, and your body is so tired and so like emotionally damaged in this moment because you don’t allow that to to go through, and your body doesn’t even want to get out of the bed sometimes. And I’m just saying I allowed myself to experience that to some level because I still get to you know get up and do my things, because I if I allowed myself just to be all the time in that mode, it’s uh it’s uh uh you don’t know how long you’re going to be in that mode. So you get to kind of like push yourself a little bit, not too much, but still continue to push yourself a little bit to be better because you know that it’s for the better. This world is amazing, it’s beautiful, it’s magical, so much beauty, so much magic in this world. And I’m just feeling like when I’m pushing myself just a little bit more, and I’m just feeling like I’m creating something beautiful, just by waking up today, by just shining my star today, by sharing my voice today. I’m just feeling like even that it’s enough. It’s more than enough. And sometimes people like you know, they have this voice in their head, like that’s not enough, you didn’t do enough, you get to do more, you get to do more, you get to do more, you know. No, whatever your body is capable of doing today, that’s what you get to do today. And that’s an it’s it’s good enough.
Yes, many it is, it’s good, good enough. And you you did touch on a lot of topics. Let me just brief it for the listeners. You talked a lot about acceptance, acceptance of coming from a survival mode and stepping into thriving mode, and it is a journey. We do take a journey, we must release the fear first, we must work through our pain and our trauma and understand our patterns that we’ve developed, that we’ve programmed our mind with. Number one. Number two, that you talked a lot about, and I really appreciate it, was having gratitude towards the end. Gratitude starts to shift your mindset. And when you have gratitude in combination with faith, it is a really powerful combination to start manifesting in your life what you desire and to step out of that bubble of fear, that that lack that sometimes we fall trapped to because it’s an ego trap. So we have three things that we always have to remember. Operating within us is our mind, our subconscious mind that is fully in control. So that is what I call the ego identity, right? We have two identities, and you have your soul, your soul identity, which is your faith, and your centeredness, your intuition, pulling you into this abundant space, right? And we’ve got the spirit, so it’s like three different entities within us, and it’s the it’s like the merging of the three, because the ego is not an issue, and I want to make that clear on this call. Ego is not an issue, it’s your self-image, and you gotta work with it because what if you don’t work through your trauma and you don’t work through what you went through, you will make the same mistake over and over and over again because you haven’t learned the lesson that that is coming with, because the lesson prepares you for what’s coming next, and only God sees what’s coming next. You can’t see it, and that’s where the surrender piece can come in, where you leave it in his will and just say, Okay, you’re in control, I’m not. I’m just here to do the best I can with what I have at the moment, whatever that is, because you’re always gonna have waves of grief, you’re always gonna have challenges, you’re always gonna have and this realization I came to this morning in in deep prayer in conversation with God, because I have a 5 a.m. wake-up call as well, and I have my coffee and I chat with him, and I just get very real with him, and I release everything to him. And when I had the least amount of control, which is when my father was dying last year or the year before, the 2023 is when that terminal diagnosis arrived, and I just started to just give it to him. I was like, I need to be able to live my life. I’m a mother, I’m a wife, I’m an author, I’m a life coach. I mean, I have all these roles that I’m playing. I cannot do this alone, and you’re not meant to do it alone. So I just thought that a lot of what you talked about, you’ve you shared a lot of tips for the listeners. Any last minute advice you want to share with people on the last couple of seconds on the show.
I would like to like uh share with the listeners that never give up on yourself. Yes, it’s not easy. Sometimes life is not easy at all, and that’s okay because we’re all going through something. This is the journey that we’re here for, and I feel life is for us, not to us. So create the best, whatever best is uh you can, and always say yes when you feel to say yes. When you feel, you know, it’s coming from the first what’s coming in your mind, share it. That’s the that’s what you get to share. And I’m doing it, you know, more and more I’m doing it.
I feel more and more safe.
But I’m not processing first what is coming and what’s it’s coming out of me of the first when I’m communicating, even sometimes you maybe it’s come up come up hush. It’s okay. Don’t blame yourself, don’t feel guilt for that, don’t apologize for that. Be authentic and just true first towards yourself. That’s the best we can do. We’re here to create for ourselves first and please ourselves first, and God is always with us, always wants the best, no matter what we’re experiencing. God always loves us, always, especially women and kids. Extra love.
That’s awesome! That’s awesome. Thanks so much, uh, Aisha. And if somebody wanted to reach you, how can they?
People can go to my website, it’s Aisha.today is aisha.today, where people can see my art, uh, my mentorship program, about my book, Joe for Living Guidebook, and the investment opportunities that they have here in Europe. That’s amazing. Of course, and also book me as a speaker if you have a conference. That would be fun.
That would be one. Uh, as a fellow speaker, I can tell you that would be great to have you in the States. Uh and I really just want to thank you for being raw and vulnerable on the show. I know a lot of women listening will be very grateful for that, and even the guys listening, because you know, part of your story could have they could have easily resonated with it. Right. So uh thanks so much for being here, Aisha. And for the listeners of Released Out Reveal Purpose, remember Matthew 5.14. Be the light. Have a wonderful week. Stay safe. Love y’all.
Bye now.
Jake for living, number ste.
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